Friday, June 1, 2012

basically, now I'm in Adelaide

I got here Wednesday afternoon...well, back up a bit. The five of us were having a great time together at our camp in Sydney but I picked up some sort of sinus cold. When I got on the plane to fly from Sydney to Adelaide, my sinuses went haywire and basically gave me excruciating ear pain the entire 2 hour flight. By the time I got off the plane in Adelaide, it felt like I had earplugs in my ears; I couldn't hear hardly anything...which of course led to great fun that evening.

I met up with my contact, Flick, in the airport. She drove me around a bit and explained the basic layout of Adelaide. Redwood Park (the area where we are) is on the north-northeast side of Adelaide. (You can see Soul Food on Google Maps.) She stopped for coffee with me and explained the basic needs that Soul Food has that they expect me to fulfill, the basics of who's who, and the general feel of the cafe. She and Evan (the pastor of the church and the father of the family where I'm staying) have this idea that I should have more goals than "I'm filling a need" for my trip, so I guess I should come up with those goals pretty quickly. Mostly so far I've had this idea that I'm simply filling a need for them, sort of like Martha in the Bible. She saw a need and had the energy, resources, and gifts to fill that need. That's kindof how I've seen it so far.

On a side note, a funny thing about this area: Apparently it's rude to call people "Mr." and "Mrs.", or to say "ma'am" and "sir." I guess it makes them feel old or like you're mocking them or something. Let's just say they've all been laughing at my "quaint" habit. It's really difficult to call people my grandparents' age by their first name and to just say "Yes" when I reeeeaaaally want to say "Yes Sir." I was chatting with Paula, one of the ladies at Soul Food, and she said it's a shame that Australian culture has removed those terms from its vocabulary, she agrees with me that it's a term of respect for elders. Everyone else I've asked has said it's generally frowned upon, but that nobody will get upset with me if I accidentally slip up because I'm American and they apparently are used to forgiving alot of differences like that.

Anyway...Flick took me to the Johnson's house (the place where I'm staying). The family is made up of Evan and Michelle, Georgia (10 years old, she's really cute), Zac (around 8 I think, he's at a farm camp for the week and I didn't meet him until last night), and Bethany (6 years old and freakin' adorable). It's kindof difficult for me to read Evan because his sense of humor is very stonefaced, but I love the girls. I like Michelle, we stayed up for about an hour just watching TV (me asking questions and she explaining things from advertisements and their reality shows). Flick and her husband Glenn (he's one of those gentle and kind people) came over to the Johnson's for dinner, and they asked me a whole bunch of questions about where I'm from, what kind of church I go to, what y'all are like, what I want to do when I grow up, etc. They all made full use of the fact that I couldn't hear anything, and I'm pretty sure they were joking alot. ;) It was a really pleasant time with them, but I started getting sleepy at around 8. I guess I was still dealing with jet lag.

I got up Thursday morning and went with Kate (one of the employees at Soul Food) to the cafe, where we worked until 5 pm. It was a bit overwhelming to have so much information thrown at me all at once: the cafe is espresso drinks, milkshakes, basic food (burgers, sandwiches, soup), and desserts like cake and cookies (or "biscuits"). Everyone was really nice to me and I had a good time, even though most of my day was spent shadowing Kate and doing prep work/cleanup.

The cafe is really cute (pictures coming soon). It's in a little strip mall, and it's really little. Well, it's little when you factor in the children's play area. It was alot of locals and people from the surrounding neighborhoods who meandered in and out all day. As soon as I can get a hang for the rhythm and procedures of the place, I think I'll be really comfortable around there. A few of the other members of the church group came in and hung out and met me. They all seemed really nice, and one couple was super-personable. Their names are Paula and Steve, and they are super-funny, really friendly, and very easy to talk to. They live up in the hills a few miles away on an acre of land, and they offered up their "caravan" (otherwise known as a garage that has been converted into a guest house) for a weekend if I want to stay with them. They also have a wildlife park across the road from their place that has a "hold a koala" attraction! WHAAAAT! ;)

It's amazing to me how many of the church members really have invested in this ministry. Most of them don't get paid to be there, they all donate things to the ministry (whether it's dishes, toys, food, or merchandise), and yet they all absolutely love being there and freely volunteer at least a few hours every week. Even Christian people who attend other churches come in and volunteer at Soul Food. Kate drives 50 minutes each way, and yet she repeatedly told me how much she loves her job (she and I had some really good conversations and I think I may get close with her, too). Although the ministry is barely making ends meet, everyone believes in it and fully trusts that its needs will be provided in time. There are even some non-Christians who come in and volunteer every so often, just because they like being there (and because they get free coffee).

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